Mediation
Mediation is an alternative to legal representation when parties choose to work together. Parties meet with our attorney to mediate the issues of marital dissolution. Our attorney is neutral and does not represent either party. Accordingly, our attorney will not meet or discuss the case with either party outside the presence of the other. Each party may obtain independent legal counsel to review agreements and provide legal advice.
Mediation can be beneficial for parties who would otherwise experience a high-conflict and prolonged divorce. Mediation provides a safe and private environment for parties to openly discuss their thoughts and needs. The attorney provides a structure for parties to talk through and exchange specific ideas as to how they can address important issues, such as custody, support and dividing community property. Parties often save significant expense by agreeing to retain joint experts or accountants. Each party can avoid costly trial preparation and litigation when mediation is successful.
When there are minor or grown children, mediation can also help ease family tensions. It avoids the possibility that children take sides in litigation. Parents are able to discuss together with an attorney what they believe would be in the best interests of their minor children. In an atmosphere of mutual respect, parties are able to maintain their dignity. Since agreements in mediation are voluntarily reached, parents are likely to honor their word. Parents that are respectful to each other through this difficult process help their children and themselves. Children generally want both parents to attend special events, whether it be sporting games, graduations, weddings or the birth of a child peacefully and at ease.
In some instances, when one party is too domineering or wants to take unfair advantage of the other party, the mediation process is best terminated.
Contact The Law Offices of Jennifer Colarossi to meet with a mediator for a free half-hour consultation with both parties present.
